Christmas Delight

How quickly Christmas arrived this year. It didn't sneak up on me; my eyes were wide open as the days flew by throughout the year. Anticipated events- births, weddings, vacations, milestones- all came and went. And so during these last few weeks, my world became a whirlwind of activity as I took part in Christmas programs, parties, dinners, shopping, quality time with friends...all jam-packed into my end-of-year holiday schedule. But it's been a wonderful month. I have been in such a holiday mood and spirit. I can almost compare this feeling of contentment to what I used to feel during the Christmas holidays as a young girl. You know, that feeling that rests just above the gut, right where a good belly laugh starts.

So while Kevin is out getting a haircut, I am sitting here in front of the computer, writing my last words for 2006. In an hour or so, we'll be driving down to Florida to visit family and add more pleasure to my holiday spirit. Kevin and I shared our own little "Christmas" last night. We laughed and hugged and said "Merry Christmas" and exchanged gifts. There was no sense taking our gifts down with us and have to bring them back. I really felt like a little girl. He had hand-wrapped all of my gifts, each corner lovingly folded, each bow attached just so. I am married to the most wonderful man, and not just because he showered me with gifts last night. He paid attention to all the little details, all the conversations we've had in the last year, to my needs and wants and desires, encouraging me in my hobbies and endeavors, and making them as pleasurable and relaxing as they could be. A heart monitor watch to allow me to get the best of my exercise routines, an FM transmitter so I can listen to TV programs when I run on the treadmill at the gym, wicking shirts to wear when I run outside during the winter months, a footbath to soak my achy feet after a long run, massage oil and sugar scrubs for my hands and legs, a bathrobe so soft I can almost melt into it, a kitty calendar to warm my heart while I work. He pampered me, literally, from head to toe. And he took pleasure and happiness in my delight.

I want the memory of last night to spill into my new year with Kevin. My plan is that we show that much delight in each other in the events we create and take part in, unfolding each one and watching each other's reaction with anticipation and joy. Whatever we encounter during the year and for the rest of our lives, let it be an experience based in trust and love. No matter if the experience is good or bad. It was a most magical night for me, the beginning of the end of Christmas 2006.

I wish you delight this Christmas. Whether experienced firsthand, or from watching your children squeal and laugh, or in the form of a "love squeeze" from a family member or a friend - however you experience delight this Christmas, may you find pleasure and joy in giving.